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Mari Posa's avatar

I have a completely different view on Bob. I don't see "using others for carnal conquests" at all. He always comes back, he is sweet in his gestures, he always asks what's going on with both Alex and Daniel, he even tells Alex he loves her and she is the one who doesn't say it back. He also always said he wanted to go to NY. He just is comfortable with who he is and what he wants. Alex and Daniel are older, with different generational values and old traumas, they still have worries about gender roles, about pleasing their families and about how relationship should be like. The Bar Mitzva scene is all about this, also the scene with Bob leaving the party with Daniel's friends when a drunk girl causes a scene because of jealousy in the most heterosexual way and Daniel is passive about it. Bob is just free of any guilt and confortable creating relationships outside the norms, Daniel and Alex are still on their way to be able to communicate and be true to themselves, Alex being a bit ahead.

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Michael Patrick O’Leary's avatar

I saw the film at the time and remember not much about it apart from the kiss and the fact that I did not like it. I actively and positively loathed another Schlesinger film: Darling. Even though I adored Julie Christie otherwise.

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